November 19 & 20: Two Days of Shenanigans!

Before November gets busy with the Thanksgiving holiday, we scheduled a fun, sex education filled weekend! On November 19th and 20th, we have three classes to get you excited. Please note that is you purchase tickets in advance, you can get special discounts that are not available at the door. Most events do not have special Duo or Trio pricing at the door.

Mapping The Vulva is a two part workshop. Duo tickets are for those who will be attending both parts of the workshop as a pair. Voyeurism during the hands-on part of the class is not welcome. We want everyone to feel comfortable exploring and practicing their new skills. Thank you for helping to create a respectful space.

Saturday, November 19 — 1:00pm
So You Want To Tie People Up ~ Educators: Suspended Animation
Club Sapphire: $35. Advance: $30 (Solo) $54 (Duo)

soyouwanttotieA playful introduction to erotic rope bondage. Interested in adding some bondage to your life, but not sure where to start? Our introductory bondage class will introduce you to the basics of rope bondage and give you the skills you need to safely and confidently start exploring bondage on your own.

If you’re new to kink, you may know that you’re interested in bondage but not know exactly what you want to do with it. We’ll help you figure it out by demonstrating a wide range of bondage styles and positions.

Once you know what kind of bondage you’re looking for, we’ll teach you a set of basic knots that you can combine to create almost any bondage position you want. This is a bondage class, not a knots class: we want you to master a small number of versatile techniques so that you can focus on having fun with your partner rather than struggling to remember numerous different knots.


Sunday, September 20 — 1:00pm
Asking For What You Want: Communication in the Bedroom ~ Educator: Stella Harris
Club Sapphire: $25. Advance: $18 (Solo) $34 (Duo) $50 (Trio)

StellaIMG_1572Knowing what you want isn’t as easy as it sounds. Asking for it can be even trickier. That kind of honesty puts us in a vulnerable place, and opens us up to rejection, or to being shamed for our  desires. People of all genders and sexualities have a lot of cultural baggage to work through. From messages implying that wanting sex or pleasure is slutty (and that that’s a bad thing) to sex tips that make it sound like we’re supposed to be able to read our partners minds. All of this sets us up for failure, and for those reasons and more, many people never take the chance to open a dialog with their partner(s). But being able to talk about your wants and needs is the only way to get them met.

In this class we’ll talk about ways to put yourself and your partner at ease, styles of communication, and specific examples of tools and phrases to try. We’ll talk about ways to start the conversation and ways to incorporate communication into dirty talk. Not even sure what to ask for? We’ll talk about some common fantasies you might want to try.


Sunday, September 20 — 3:00pm
Mapping the Vulva: Anatomy, Communication, Touch, & Pleasure ~ Educator: Stella Harris
Club Sapphire: $25 (Solo, 3pm-5pm)  $65 (Duo, 3pm-6:30pm).
Advance: $20 (Solo, 3pm-5pm) $50 (Duo, 3pm-6:30pm)

FB AdThere is so much mystery surrounding vulvas that it’s become a pop-culture joke. From Orange is the New Black to Gay Men Draw Vaginas – where even the title is inaccurate. Unfortunately, the joke is on us. With vulvas being a place of mystery, and worse – a source of shame – women’s ability to receive pleasure from this area of their body can be extremely diminished. In this class we will dispel misinformation and teach you all about the vulva from anatomy to styles of touch. In addition to the external genitalia the underlying anatomical structures, the vagina, and the g-spot will also be covered.

But we won’t dive straight in. As with all of my classes, the content is shown through the lens of intimacy and connection. We will cover styles of communication that will set both the giver and the receiver of touch at ease and give you tools to communicate your desires. There is a whole world of pleasure available if giver and receiver are willing to learn how to relax, open up, and to touch and receive touch.

People of all genders and sexualities are welcome to attend, either solo or with a partner or friend. This class will be a safe, supportive environment for people to learn. The class will be part lecture with visual aids and part live demonstration. We will use index cards so that attendees can ask questions anonymously.

This is a two part class. The first part is 2 hours will be interactive lecture and a live demonstration. After a 30 minute break, the second part will begin an hour long, hands-on practice section.  People purchasing a Solo ticket attend the first part. Pairs who purchase a Duo ticket attend both parts one and two.  (Special Trio pricing available upon request.)

Request for Proposals – Architect

Request for Qualifications/Request for Proposal – CSPC/FSPC Office and Event Space

The Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) and Foundation for Sex Positive Culture (FSPC) are seeking Professional Architecture services for the design, documentation and permitting of their new office and event space.  These sister organizations share a vision of “sexuality without shame” and work to provide opportunities for community-building, education, expression and the exploration of all facets of sexuality.

Information about each organization and its history can be found on the About Us and History pages of their web sites:  and

About the Project:

The project will likely be a tenant improvements/adaptive reuse project of a 9300 square foot light manufacturing space in Ballard.  The project team has completed a thorough programming exercise and a preliminary test-to-fit/feasibility study on the space.  The team has also met with the City of Seattle to verify that the space can accommodate the proposed use through a defined and workable process.

The new space will house offices for both organizations, a library, and two multi-purpose spaces intended to host a variety of events ranging from educational workshops to social events.  In addition, there will likely be a community space (coffee bar or similar) and space for the display of art.  A small warming kitchen/serving pantry is needed to support events in the space, and a series of toilet rooms and showers will need to be added.

The events hosted in the space are not intended for performance, and no alcohol is served in the space – therefore, the space is considered a membership organization/community club.  However, as many of the activities hosted by the CSPC/FSPC are intimate in nature, privacy for the membership (both to the outside and between the event spaces) will be a consideration.

The CSPC/FSPC has recently vacated their home of over 17 years after negotiating the early termination of their lease to make way for new development in the Interbay neighborhood.  They are currently hosting events in temporary locations and are very anxious to return to regular calendar events and a home location.

Qualified firms should be licensed to practice Architecture in the State of Washington and should be familiar with the City of Seattle zoning and permitting processes.  In addition, the CSPC and FSPC are interested in working with firms who value the service to the community that these organizations provide and who are supportive of sex positive culture and their shared mission.

Interested firms should submit the following:

–          Letter of interest

–          Firm profile

–          Resumes of key project team members

–          List of related experience

–          Approach to process

–          Methodology of fee structure (fee to be negotiated upon scope definition)

–          Recommendations for key consulting engineers (Structural and MEP needed)


Questions and submittal documents should be directed to:

Jeanette Aprato at [email protected]  with the Subject Line:  Architect Proposal

Please CC Sophia Iannicelli at [email protected]

For questions you can also contact us by phone: 206-229-2185


Materials may be mailed to:

Center for Sex Positive Culture

1037 NE 65th St

Suite 356

Seattle, WA 98115


In order to be considered for this project, submissions should be received no later than 4:00PM on November 1, 2016.

Erotic Massage Night Update

Due to the organizer’s work schedule, the October 9th Erotic Massage Night is cancelled. Due to the unique format of the evening, finding a replacement has not been possible. We apologize for the inconvenience.

To make up for the disruption in the schedule, November’s Erotic Massage Night on the 13th will be an Instructional Night.

These evening massages are different from the regular Sunday massage nights. On instruction night, the first half of the evening will be a demonstration of an erotic massage on a female and a male model. For those interested in an evening of different erotic massage techniques, this is the night for you to attend. The second half of the evening will be for you to practice what you learned. Come learn some techniques and strokes that you can use at the other Sunday massage evenings.

If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact [email protected] or call us at (206) 229-2185. Thank you for your understanding.